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Found a post by my friend this morning in a group and wonder, how can people be so annoying and insensitive just because they have passed the phase out.

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Don't Know Who Can I Share These Views With

Since I've been so long of the friendship we have.
I also couldn't find anyone like you here. Not even close to.
Then I don't know with whom I can share these views and moreover the feeling of being there.
It tasted different when I was singing without you.
The memory about you can't be replaced even if it's already past for years.

These are the views that reminds me of you, my coldy friend :)
Hope all is well with your life there.

Good Bye is Never Easy

Good bye is never easy, even when you have to face it regularly. Hand shake. A smile in the faces. A hug. Tears. It hurts. Trust me.
*sigh

As Simple As One Two Three

After so many times my sister complaining about her being asked by her friends and colleagues about when she will get married, when back then, she never have anyone asking her that question. While in the different side, I often dealing with the exact same question. Not only from my friends and colleagues who are adult, but also from my students who are kids in fact. Have you ever imagine, we (or I at least) can act of being so annoyed to adult so that they won't ask any further questions, but to kids, can we? The answer is, yes, we can. But in fact, I can't. Because it's not their fault to ask such questions. They just immitate their parents, relatives, and maybe people they don't-know-who asking the similar questions to others who aren't married yet.

Suddenly, this thought came to my mind. The answer of the question is simple. Just like other occasions in life which needs the interfere of faith, like birth, death, etc. being married also has the same answer. If you were asked why you were born on that date. You won't answer nothing but, I don't know. It's just time. Nothing else. We can only tell a story of the process, not why. So, the answer of the question is, I don't know when. It's just a matter of time until I meet the one and we were meant to be together until death do us part and so
on.

Also, this what I learned from this situation. People often think that unmarried person in unfortunate, but actually, based on my life, it's not at all. I enjoy my life and being thankful of it. Some other time, they envy to what happen in our life as a single. I don't have to mention in what situation, though. It's all about destiny. No one can make it sooner or later. So do we.

Let's just play with the sun, sand, and wave while we are on the beach. No need to be afraid when the sun sets. Enjoy the wind blows also.

Apa yang disebut-sebut itu memang benar...

Baca kalimat ini:

"Jika mampu mengikhlaskan, maka sesungguhnya itu adalah kebahagiaan sebenarnya."

Walaupun sering kali saya mendengar bahwa keikhlasan adalah hal terpenting dalam setiap aktivitas, namun baru kali ini saya mengalaminya sendiri. Sulit memang, tapi ketika hati ini sampai pada tahap mengikhlaskan, then everything will be very okay. Sesak dada dan gelisah seakan hilang begitu saja, tergantikan dengan rasa lega yang luar biasa. Hei, lihat! Saya bukan orang tersial di dunia ini, karena sesungguhnya tidak ada orang yang sial. Semua orang mendapatkan apa yang diusahakan dan telah menjadi bagiannya. Nasib saya justru masih lebih baik dibanding orang lain di sekitar saya yang kehilangan harta benda, keluarga, bahkan jiwanya dengan cara yang tidak disangka-sangka. 

Apa yang membuat saya galau tempo hari, juga ternyata bukan hal besar yang pantas membuat saya galau. Bahwa saya sudah melakukan yang terbaik itu mungkin benar, bahwa sudah banyak yang saya korbankan, itu juga benar, namun jika setiap kesulitan bermuara  pada IKHLAS, maka biarlah Dia yang mengganti semuanya dengan sesuatu yang lebih baik, insya Allah.

Kalau kata Babe, SUCI 3, "Aaah, sudahlah!" :))

*beautifulskyisunreplaced*